How a Loved One Can Find Healing, even in transition, in a hospice.

Healing In Transition – Is It Possible?

There are moments in life when the veil between worlds feels thinner, when the boundaries between body, spirit, and energy blur in ways we can’t quite explain, yet deeply feel.

For me, one of those times came during my mother’s final months. What I experienced with her reshaped my understanding of energy, healing, and love, and reminded me that even as we transition, we are still evolving, still learning, still capable of peace.

May 2010 – My Mum In Hospice

My mother’s energy was moving in and out of her body as I spoke.

“Mum you said a while back that you were interested in being buried there” I said gently. She looked at me helplessly.

Remembering a question one of my teachers had posed to me once at a difficult time, I asked her:

“Mum – what is most sacred to you?”

Her eyes widened, and she breathed more deeply and easily. She looked into my eyes and said

“I want to become a tree”.

To press my point, I had to be sure.

“So if we make arrangements with the Sustainability Centre at East Meon, they’ll give you a natural burial and continue planting a forest around you. Is that what you want?”

She curled in on herself, tears welling, and bowed her head. “Yes.” She mouthed, unable to use her voice fully.

“Trees are sacred”.

The EMF Balancing Technique and Transition

It was really happening.  My dear mum was slowly but surely leaving her body.  And I could feel it.

As an EMF Balancing Technique practitioner and energy sensitive, I could feel her energy moving in and out of her body whenever I visited her in the hospice.

Sometimes her energy would extend horizontally from her solar plexus. Sometimes it was fully within her body. Other times, it floated gently out of the top of her head.

For me, as an empath, this was both fascinating and deeply emotional. I couldn’t deny what I felt — it was as tangible as touching the tip of my nose. My years of studying the human energy field were being experienced by myself and my mother in real time.

EMF Sessions — A Source of Comfort

I was grateful to be able to give my mum EMF Balancing Technique sessions while she was in hospice care. One session took three days to complete because she was so weak.

The first time I began, she sighed and said,

“You have no idea how good that feels!”

I laughed softly. “I probably have some idea,” I said, “since I love receiving the sessions too.”

She continued to ask for them, and they brought her great comfort — helping her navigate the overlapping sensations of spiritual awakening and transition.

“I Was Always Energy Sensitive”

My mum told me once, “I was always energy sensitive.”

Looking back, I believe her completely. Growing up in postwar Britain, as a 1950s housewife, she had no language or community for that kind of awareness. I watched her quietly commune with the energy of our home and garden — the nature spirits and devas — though she never spoke of them.

When I tried to talk about energy as a child, she would give me a look of fear and disapproval. So, I learned to stay quiet.

But once she began her transition, something changed. She began to awaken.

She told me, “You were always right. Energy really exists.”

From then on, we had the most beautiful, honest conversations about how energy works and what we noticed together.

One day, I brought a friend of hers to visit her. After about ten minutes, when the friend stepped out of the room, Mum whispered to me,

“Take her home, Sarah. She’s getting too distressed — I can feel it.”

As she moved closer to leaving her body, her sensitivity to others’ emotional fields grew even stronger. She was reading energy with remarkable precision.

A Shared Journey of Awareness

A fellow EMF Balancing Technique Practitioner, Lina Esposito, wrote this amazing book, The Little Book on EMF: My Personal Journey Through the EMF Technique.

She writes about giving EMF sessions to her father as he became unwell, and how the experience helped heal their relationship and deepen their bond before his passing.

In my own journey, the EMF Balancing Technique helped me understand what was happening — not only energetically but spiritually. It gave me a language for what my mother and I were both feeling.

When I couldn’t be at the hospice, I gave her remote sessions. Later, she told me she knew when I was working with her — she could feel it.

Those shared experiences brought us both a sense of peace, connection, and gentle closure. Even in transition, healing was happening — through love, through energy, and through presence.

Learn More About The EMF Balancing Technique

Blog Resource Page: The EMF Balancing Technique, Phases I-XII.