How a spiritual medium makes a powerful connection with a Loved One?

 If you have lost a Loved One, you may be thinking about visiting a spiritual medium. Here are some tips to help you get a true reading.

A spiritual mediumship experience?

Recently, I wrote a blog post about my mum and her passing, and the unusual bedside experiences I had at the time.

My mum, in the last stages of her life, appeared to find all of this spiritual activity quite normal…when she had spent a lot of her life not acknowledging my spiritual experiences!

She admitted that “you were right all along, Sarah”.

I heard a voice in my ear that I heard asking me to repeat childhood stories to my mum.  These were all previously unknown stories to me – and more importantly, ones that she could validate.

I got firsthand experience of what it feels like to connect with our Loved Ones.

How do we know we are connecting with Loved Ones?

If you’ve read this blog for a while, you’ll know that I’m a big John Edward fan – IMHO one of the best spiritual teachers out there about energy and energetic language.  He’s also one of the best-know mediums in the Western world.

What has always impressed me most about John’s work is his insistence on being the one to bring through validatable material to those seeking comfort or connection with their Loved Ones.

How to be sure you are getting a true reading

Validatable material is information that the spiritual medium cannot possibly know about the person who has passed or the family member(s) having the reading.

Some examples are:-

– an exact description of a photograph in somebody’s house, who is the recipient of the reading
– a private family joke that no one else would be privy to
– a sense of how the person died
– the personal likes and dislikes of the person who has passed and perhaps some other family members too, or still with us, OR passed on
– what I call an ‘I see you’.  An example would be ‘looking forward to the new baby’ or ‘you bought a new car! …when only the person or people receiving the reading know that information.

How to identify if you can practice as a spiritual medium

What happened for me is that following my mum’s passing…I began making a lot more validatable connections with spirits who have passed.

I’ve always been fascinated with the subject matter – I’ve read numerous books by spiritual mediums and watched many TV programs as well.

I say a lot more validatable connections, because recently I realized that, to some degree, I have always been a spiritual medium – yet somehow I thought everyone noticed what I noticed and didn’t talk about it.

Spiritual mediums may be sensitive to energetic imprints

Many years ago, I had a creepy feeling about a house where I was having a business meeting, as if somebody had pushed their wife down the stairs at the back and she had died.

Nothing logical about it at all.  After the meeting finished, I quietly asked the owner, and he looked really surprised.

Extremely pale is probably a more accurate descrption!  A woman dying by falling down the stairs was part of the history of the house from medieval times.

A Spiritual Medium’s gifts can become more active after losing a Loved One

The night that my dad passed when I was 19 and living in London, he appeared in front of me a little while before my mother’s phone call from Chichester (UK) – about 90 miles away.

I was able to tell her which pajamas he was wearing before he passed.

More recently, someone from my ex-husband’s family who has passed has been making regular contact with me.

I have been able to pass on validatable information, which has been comforting to somebody in my ex-husband’s family.

As always, I’m interested in hearing your stories.

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